It’s obviously easier said than done. Sometimes the glass is half empty, sometimes
half full, or maybe it spilled completely. Situations, people, stress, and
boredom all affect your attitudes and feelings. So why is thinking positively
important? How does it help people to deal with problems and to be happier
overall?
Different factors play a role in depression. One part of the puzzle
involves people’s thinking
styles – the ways in which they look at life and explain events and
situations, both good and bad. That is, people tend to make sense of the world
in ways that can be more optimistic or pessimistic. For example, when someone
with a pessimistic thinking style fails a test, she might think something like,
“I’m so lame; I always fail.” On the other hand, someone with a more optimistic
style might think, “Math is tough for me, but I know I can do better if I study
more.”
Some scientists have linked optimism to happiness, good health, and
success. This doesn’t mean that people can simply decide to think positively
and change their lives overnight – it’s not that simple. But research suggests
that thinking styles can be changed and that optimism can help you to deal with
problems like depression and benefit areas of your life such as your health,
relationships, and schoolwork.
So, how do people, particularly people with depression, learn to think
in healthier ways?
One way is through cognitive
therapy, a type of therapy that aims to teach people certain cognitive
(thinking) skills. These skills help people learn to replace negative or
distorted thinking with a healthier, more positive perspective.
A good self-image is another key point. Learning to identify and
cultivate your personal strengths – like how funny, creative, or generous you
are – is essential.